It comes down to perception

Life is the collection of little decisions we make, or don’t make, and the guilt or euphoria that is accumulated as a result. There was a commercial for insurance some time ago, but I don’t recall which company it was promoting. There were two boards, one with expectations of future events, the other with events that happened in the past.

The events were color-coded red and (I believe) blue. Red were negatives, blue positives. The expectation board was weighted heavily towards positive events. The past events showed more evenly distributed events, as evidenced by the colors displayed.

What this was meant to convey is that we expect mostly good things in our lives, but in reality it is much more balanced – positive and negative.

But that’s an incomplete picture as well. Perception plays a huge part in this. I’ll sum up that up with this joke:

Two young brothers were as different as could be. Worried that the boys had developed extreme personalities — one was a total pessimist, the other a total optimist — their parents took them to a psychiatrist.

First the psychiatrist treated the pessimist. Trying to brighten his outlook, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with brand-new toys. But instead of yelping with delight, the little boy burst into tears. “What’s the matter?” the psychiatrist asked, baffled. “Don’t you want to play with any of the toys?” “Yes,” the little boy bawled, “but if I did I’d only break them.”

Next the psychiatrist treated the optimist. Trying to dampen his out look, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with horse manure. But instead of wrinkling his nose in disgust, the optimist emitted just the yelp of delight the psychiatrist had been hoping to hear from his brother, the pessimist. Then he clambered to the top of the pile, dropped to his knees, and began gleefully digging out scoop after scoop with his bare hands. “What do you think you’re doing?” the psychiatrist asked, just as baffled by the optimist as he had been by the pessimist. “With all this manure,” the little boy replied, beaming, “there must be a pony in here somewhere!”


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