Who are we competing with

The more we get around people, the more likely we are to benefit. We benefit, unless we feel that everyone is in competition with us. (Sounds a bit like John Forbes Nash, no?)

When we think of scarcity – that we didn’t get something because someone else did, we start blaming. We start playing the victim. We lose perspective on what really matters.

There actually is enough to go around. It may not feel that way, but we’re doing so much better, in many ways, than what we’d have been like a hundred years ago.

So, try to complain a little less. Be a bit more empathetic. And while it’s not the point of doing so, you may actually see some new doors open.

On the lighter side

Yesterday ended up having a darker tone than I had intended, but it seemed to wrap up, so I didn’t want to attempt to gild the lily. I think we all our the culmination of our pasts, and everyday becomes our past at each day’s end.

It’s neither good nor bad, just who we are. And I think to be continually growing, learning, expanding our horizons is a positive way to live, and a way to make an impact on those around us.

And I think that’s something we all should aspire to.

Milestones

With the nation’s 250th anniversary behind us, I find myself thinking about personal milestones. Major moments in the history of my life.

Like everyone, I was deeply shaped by the novel coronavirus pandemic. Hard to believe that’s now been over six years since the world shut down.

Four years prior to that, I had a personal event upend my life, and I left nearly everything stable behind in favor of novelty and change. In an odd way, the pandemic actually fit into my of life more than it would have before that time.

And even earlier back, the terrorist attack on 9/11; graduations; deaths; births. It’s interesting how many things affect us, and that we carry with us through our lives.

Maybe it means that things will keep happening, and we’ll continue growing until it’s all over.

 

Revisiting

Looking back over a scratchpad from several years ago, there are some corollaries I’ve noticed – a sense of uncertainty, the struggling of friends trying to find their way, and my interests, which haven’t changed all that much. 

I think there are aspects of life that we notice when we get to glimpse thoughts we had previously, aspects we may neglect if we’re not paying attention. There are patterns in our lives, and that gives us direction, if we can take notice.

Finally doing it

I think this blog has been floating here since like 2016. Ten years. That’s mind-blowing to me.

Obviously it has gone through phases of my complete absence. But, and I’ve said it before, I’m pretty committed at this point. So much so that I’m finally making some changes to the layout.

I guess keep an eye out, and we’ll see how it works together.

When commercials had heart

A friend and I were talking about how commercials of today lack the appeal that commericals had in the 80’s and 90’s. We debated how much of that was nostalgia vs. quality vs. blatant commercialism or cheap production value. Many things.

We didn’t come to a conclusion.

But I was reminded of a story my mother told me about, when I was a young child, I would sit and play while the tv was on. Then, when the commercials started, I would pay rapt attention. Once the program resumed, I too would resume my playing.

Certainly not post hoc, ergo propter hoc, but still. I sometimes find myself watching commercials now as well. And they do lack a little subtlety that, maybe, commercials of yore maintained.

The success of trying

“Do or do not. There is no try.” – Yoda

Big fan, not going to lie. But, there is some evidence that just having some interests – and trying them out – may affect how many positive things come into your life.

It’s surface area.

The surface area concept is a mental model stating that your success is directly proportional to the passionate action you take times the number of people you effectively communicate it to. (Also known as the Luck Surface Area)

Just trying things – in places with others of similar interests – exposes you to more opportunities than had you not, so it’s easy enough to see why it would work.

Finding quiet

It isn’t possible to make the world settle down. In some ways, right now feels quieter than pre-2020. But it’s still noisy. There’s still a lot going on.

Finding peace and sanity in your life can make the difference between carrying on and losing it.

For this, like so many other things, there is no one way that works.

Myself, I like music, I like nature, and I value meditation. Sadly, I don’t always have time for it. But that’s when doing it is most important.

When ideas come

I think, like for most people, ideas just pop up whenever. Different things that want your attention, demand your time, things you want to create, or projects you want to tackle, or maybe even the things you’ve been putting off.

The managing of time ends up being somehting I consider often. How do I allocate that most precious resource to doing things that matter.

But, at the same time, how do I ensure that an idea had isn’t one that’s forgotten?

For me, it’s a lot of jotting down, trying different collection methods, and, mostly, forgetting these random ideas that occur during the day.

I can’t help but wonder if everyone loses out on ideas as well.

Time to read

Like with writing, I’d let reading slip past me recently. This year, I’ve not read a lot. Until recently. I had a couple days off, and spent one of them between bed and couch, either sleeping or reading.

But books are still one of the great joys of my life. I like the thoughts that people have. I think about “thinking” a lot. Semantics and logic. I often thought I’d study logic in a Philosphy Ph.D. program somewhere, but never did. And now, the thought of going back to university is, if not furthest from my mind, way, way out there.

But, I still enjoy reading. Novels, mostly, but some nonfiction. I read the Chernow book on Hamilton last year. Currently reading Anthony Bourdain’s The Nasty Bits.

And, like time for anything else, making it is significantly more effective than finding it.