How do we listen

If someone thinks differently than us, do we listen in a calm and understanding fashion?

Or do we merely shut down, and devolve into base accustations and insults?

This is something I’m considering today, more so than any other day…

The first time

When was the last time you did something for the first time?

For me, it’s shockingly frequent. I don’t actively look for new endeavors, but with my career being what it is, I find myself in new situations quite often.

Most recently, I was overseeing the build of a faux-ice rink. Sure, why not?

I heard somewhere that time sees to move slower when faced with new experiences. As we get older, and tend to find ourselves in an unshakable routine – well, you might be familiar with the sensation of time flying by.

Sprinkling new experiences into our lives may just be the antidote for that.

DO SOMETHING

Franklin Delano Roosevelt said something to the effect of: “Do something. If it works, do more of it. If it doesn’t, so something else.”

It’s good advice. We are all pretty good about doing something.

What we could use help with is evaluating whether it works or not.

Many of us just keep doing the same thing, regardless of if works or not.

Omit needless words

In Strunk and White’s The Elements of Style, one rule they mention is “omit needless words”.

Most writers don’t always heed that rule. Myself included.

There’s a point we try to get across, so clear in our heads, but so often fumbled on the page.

So when you sit down to write, it’s important to think of the reader, and think of the rules, and think of grammar, and spelling, and everything else.

It’s also important not to think about it, and to just sit down and write.

Spooky season again

Ah, Halloween. One of my favorite times of year.

And it’s big business. From horror-themed events, festivals, and conventions, to films, books, and entertainment – revenue for last year was estimated to be over $12 billion in the US for Halloween.

It’s not for everyone. But for the ones who do feel a part of it – it makes sense to spend money.

And that could be said of any niche.

Two paths forward

There are two ways to make it in the world. First, filling a void as is – a cog to fill a cog-sized hole.

Second, you can see that void as part of the whole, and then find a solution that solves the problem, perhaps even without a cog.

Nearly everything out there can be improved upon.

Figuring out the way to do so let’s you plot your own course.