The balance

What is the appropriate balance of time spent between things? Work and life. Art and mundane. Finances and relationships.

It seems that there’s no cookie cutter methodology.

Each situation is unique.

Start stupid…

Sometimes, it’s difficult to tackle a problem, especially when it is complex and multifaceted.

So how do you go about it?

You break it down into manageable chunks, ensuring that each step is clear and achievable. You start with the most simplistic path to make it happen, focusing on the essential actions that lay the groundwork for success.

Then, as you progress, you add the other elements needed, gradually incorporating more complex components and refining your approach.

This method not only makes the task less daunting, but also allows for flexibility.

A grateful heart

What of we look at everyone – each person – as no better and no worse.

No better AND no worse.

The impoverished man on the street is a brother. The wealthy woman in her mansion is our sister.

We don’t cover her possessions.

We won’t fear his approach.

What if we were grateful for everyone we coexist with?

The cost of social media

Cost? Everyone knows it’s free.

Well, maybe not the blue check on twitter… err, X. But, free signups. Free skating. Free use.

Of course, it’s said – if you’re not paying for the product, you are the product.

These platforms sell ad space – with rapt eyeballs ready to belle, and maybe click.

They sell our data. and that’s a vague space where data can be used for a number of functions.

But what if there’s something else?

What if the true cost of social media INT what these platforms are monetizing, but rather how the users’ perceptions and understanding of the world can directed in focused ways by shadow players (maybe Russia or China or other countries; or PR firms and PACs right here in our country)?

Who is really considering how you interact with those social media platforms?

The weight of words

I’ve been thinking about Adam Grant’s observation that “articles fade after a week; people keep books.”

Articles are like rainfall – they come quickly, nourish briefly, and then fade away. But books? Books are more like slow-moving rivers, carving deeper channels in our thinking over time.

An article might change what you think. But a good book? That can change how you think.

Time to travel

There’s something about being in an unfamiliar place that wakes up parts of your brain that have been on autopilot.

Maybe that’s the real magic of travel – not the destinations we reach, but the way it reminds us how to be curious again.

Blank pages

Disappointment has a way of making time feel different.

In a single moment, not only do you lose what you were hoping for, but also you fret over all those future moments you’d already imagined.

The good thing is, those empty spaces where our plans used to be? They’re not endings.

They’re blank pages on which we get to write our future.

Retaliatory

What is the purpose of retaliation? Is it justified? Is it necessary?

Are we acting the way that we want to act?

Are we supporting the people who are exemplifying the ideals that we say we adhere to?